Celebrity relationships are not exclusive 'the break up and make up' syndrome, with the 'will they will they not' get back together gossips. Where the drama of the 'getting back' overshadows the relationship itself!
Splitting couples, whether in public or private domain is hard enough, but how do you know when does over mean OVER? When does the heartbreak need to be tamed or erased?
In life they say you only get one chance, but does love have any rules? And most importantly are these rules always fair on getting your ex back? When do you know when to quit or when to fight to get your ex back!
Advice from family and friends on whether you should get your ex back is 'nice' or is it more 'a nice to have but no thanks'.....not right now thanks! No one knows how you are feeling, and no one can tell you the same rules apply to every situation especially when it comes to your ex boyfriend or girlfriend.
People are different, and we all feel pain in a different way, so its down to you, keeping with the season do you go back to a 'half lit firework'?
Can you live with the “what if?” questions. What if I’ll never love any other man as much? What if I never have sex as good again? What if he was THE ONE? And my personal favourite: What if I’m going to die alone now? Am I too late to have kids with anyone else? Was that my last chance saloon of happiness? Even more excruciating and existential is the other side of the coin: Am I inflating who they were and what we had? Was they the one that got away? Not giving yourself another chance is like opening a Pandora’s Box of second-guessing yourself. So don't be stuck with a lifetime of wondering “what if?”
Whatever you decide, I want to give you some hot golden tips to show you how to win back a man or how to win a girlfriend back making the right decisions at YOUR PACE.
Think about what is so
fantastic, and either embrace it or erase it. Here’s a checklist of whether its
worth giving it another shot:
1.
Day McDreamy: Do
you think about him everyday, or even a couple times a week, you’re sooooo not done with him.
2.
BF &BFF: Your
pals still want to be his friend. If they’re still rooting for him, maybe you
should be too.
3.
Black And Blue: He
didn’t ever hurt you physically. In fact, he was quite gentlemanly.
4.
Time Is On Your Side:
You feel like you’ve got nothing to lose except maybe a couple hours for a
date. Whatever happens, happens.
5.
Not Co-Dependent:
Beware, if he’s vengeful or even slightly manipulative, he might just be
waiting to get the upper hand again.
6.
Going The Distance:
What’s he doing to get you back? Was it a random drunk text or did he talk to
you face-to-face or phone-to-phone? Heck, he’s gotta give you at least an email
you can tell he spent time on. Guys get bonus points for creativity here, i.e.,
love letters, getting the DJ to play your fave song, or other heart-melting rom-com-esque
smooth moves.
7.
Change Is Possible:
It’s been a long time, so he may have actually grown up.
8.
Back And Forth: If
either one of you is not willing to discuss the past openly, there’s no future.
Do you think you can articulate what your old problems were to him or are you
afraid to go there? They have to be able to meet you half way!
9.
Needy Not Greedy:
Ideally, they are single. But most importantly, they are not trying to stick it
in you while he’s still dating someone else. He has genuine feelings; he’s not
just feeling up on you.
10.
If It Ain’t Broke, Don’t Fix It: Can you be realistic about your expectations? Are you
OK with crashing and burning, or will it send you back to relationship rehab?
11.
Not So Sexy Times: If
the sex was never good, forget it. Either you have it or you don’t; you can’t
learn chemistry.
12.
Please Forgive Me: Do
you still hold a grudge? Do you want him to pay for what he did to you last
time? You can’t run your love life like it’s a toll booth. If you can’t find it
in your heart to forgive him, you can’t date him again.
13.
Tie The Not:
Could you see yourself marrying him or being with him forever? If not, why
bother? If you’re just looking for a good lay, then don't play with your
emotions. You can’t have meaningless sex with an ex — there are feelings there.
So, go to pastures new!
Whatever you decide, YOU DECIDE, its about how you feel!
What I can say is if you do decide to go back and give it another try, then the next step is about your game plan that will deliver your success rate.
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