When you've lost someone who you really care about it can
be one of the hardest things you face.
Your natural
inclination will be to try to get your ex back. In order to
find a
realistic way to save your relationship just find the best get
your ex
back book out there, read it and follow it.
Not all relationship books are created equal. Like with most things some books are better
than others. Using a book as a road map
is a good idea but make sure you pick the right book. Picking the wrong book and following the
wrong advice will insure not only that you will never get your ex back but that
you will cause yourself and your ex a
lot of useless pain.
Here are a few things you should look for in a book about
getting your ex back:
1) Any book that teaches you to lie or mislead in order
to get your ex back should be avoided at all costs. Even if those methods do work, which is
unlikely, you won't have the loving, honest relationship you really want. No relationship that is built on lies and
deceit will ever last or be truly fulfilling.
2) You want a book that will lay out a specific easy to
follow guide. This isn't the time for a
lot of philosophical teaching. This is
the time for a specific, and effective, plan of action.
3) A good relationship book should help you uncover the
reasons why your relationship failed in the first place. It won't do you any good to get your ex back
if you just repeat the same mistakes that got you to this point in the first
place.
4) Any relationship book should also cover what to do if
the unthinkable happens: you just can't get your ex back. No one wants to hear that but sometimes
that's what happens. Sometimes the
relationship is just too far gone and you will need tools and techniques to
help you get through the rough times and heartbreak while you are recovering
from the breakup.
A good relationship book will provide you with those
tools in an easy to understand and follow format.
Like the song says:
"Breaking Up Is Hard To Do" but sometimes, with the right help
you can save your relationship. Give
yourself every shot at happiness that you can, a great system to follow is
Magic of Making Up – I really can’t speak highly about this read!
The Magic of Making Up - takes you through a process of truly
evaluating your relationship, both positives and negatives, to see if you can
identify what specifically went wrong in your case. The Magic of Making Up also
gives you things to focus on to improve your own life while you are in the
broken up stage. Taking time to make yourself the best you can be at this stage
not only takes your focus away from your heartbreak, according to the Magic Of Making Up it also helps prepare you to portray a self-confident mindset to your
ex, and also prepares you to move forward in a positive way regardless of the
outcome.
The Magic Of Making Up covers strategies for contacting your ex, the type of meeting to set up and how to set it up, how to handle a "No" if that is the response you get on your first try, and perhaps most important how to handle yourself at the first meeting after a period of break up.
The Magic Of Making Up discusses how to behave and the kinds of things to discuss at the first meeting, what not to discuss, and offers an interesting "reconnect technique", which is a simple but loving action you can take that triggers your ex's subconscious into feeling like they are already back together in a loving relationship.
The Magic Of Making Up covers strategies for contacting your ex, the type of meeting to set up and how to set it up, how to handle a "No" if that is the response you get on your first try, and perhaps most important how to handle yourself at the first meeting after a period of break up.
The Magic Of Making Up discusses how to behave and the kinds of things to discuss at the first meeting, what not to discuss, and offers an interesting "reconnect technique", which is a simple but loving action you can take that triggers your ex's subconscious into feeling like they are already back together in a loving relationship.
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